Knowing Where To Stop





With near-daily product launches, limited edition collections, viral hype around new releases, and a wealth of new shades and formulas, sometimes it's hard to know where to draw the line when it comes to spending your hard earned cash.


As a beauty blogger, I spend a portion of every single day scouring beauty sites for reviews, news and tutorials and sometimes it gets really hard to control the urge to buy it all. There's always something new that catches your eye, and another product you just have to have. 


I consider myself something of an emotional shopper too, if I'm feeling down, or I've had a crappy day, I can find myself in the Selfridges' beauty hall without really realising I'm headed there, or filling up my online basket over dinner. Not a habit I'd recommend, but we all have our coping mechanisms.


So how do you stop yourself from ending up on on a diet of beans for the rest of the year? Well, as far as I know, there's no magic answer, there's no pill you can take to stop wanting new things, and  there's no obvious option. What you can do though, is try to take control of your actions a little, and slow the process down. There are a few steps that have been working for me recently, so maybe they can help you too.


The first thing? Unsubscribe from all those teasing emails. Sephora were often sending me three emails a week. That's three torturous emails a week. Three times a week where I'd add more products to my wishlist. That had to stop.


Secondly? Don't go in those stores if there's nothing you need. The amount of times I've gone into Boots just because I'm passing by, and have left with £20 worth of stuff that I don't need.  Don't do it to yourself.


And thirdly, make a wishlist. I have a page in the back of my planner where I write any products that have tickled my fancy. If I still want it in two weeks, it stays on the list, if I still want it in four? That's when I'll go and have a swatch. I try not to buy it there and then, unless it's something really special, and if I'm still thinking about it another two weeks later, that's when it comes home with me. This tends to eliminate a LOT of the blogger hysteria induced buying.


In the meantime, I really need to figure out how to streamline my stash a little. There is no way I can ever use the amount of products I have before they expire, and it just seems like such a waste. 


Maybe a little blog sale is in order?

9 comments

  1. I'm quite good at this now- buying a house a few years ago & getting married next year means I have to be sensible. I think it helps that I don't work in town so I can't just pop into Boots on my lunch break, if there's temptation near it's definitely harder to avoid xx

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  2. After getting my first pay cheque two weeks ago, I've been spending money and hauling beauty products as if there's no tomorrow. Reading beauty blogs and watching YouTube videos are the main culprits behind my excessive craving to own every single product out there. I definitely need to take charge of the situation because as fun as it is to try new products and finally tick things off my wishlist, it's getting out of hand. (I write that as I plan on purchasing some NARS products over the coming weekend. No shame) I always make a wishlist but never for the purpose of eliminating and cutting down the list. I think it's a great idea. I think I'm going to write two lists from now on. 1 is the maybe list. If after countless research and reviews and after swatching it in person and I still want it, it goes to the second list: the buy it now or forever regret it list ;) Here's hoping you and I manage to control our beauty spending. Ps. I like the sound of a blog sale (geez.... I just never know when to stop) :D

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  3. Such good tips Jaye. Lately I've found myself getting so dragged down by not being able to afford enough new products to keep my blog ticking over. I need to remind myself that this is probably the same for everybody and I don't need so much 'stuff' in order to keep going!

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  4. That's exactly how I handle purchases. Even though my wishlist is endless and consists of dozens of products I'm deleting some wishes every now and then. Some products are in my excel sheet months until I buy them. Just because they are far too expensive to buy them in an emotional situation. (I'm also an emotional shopper ... that's pretty dangerous.)

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  5. My wish list is INSANE, filled with all the many things I can't afford if I want to eat real food haha, I'm not too fussed with hugely hyped up releases because I: Can't afford them, and by the time I've gotten it all my readers will have found other reviewsAllison from www.mercuteify.com

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  6. Fantastic tips! I completely agree with you on passing Boots (well for me, it's the Australian equivalent Priceline) - so many times I went in there out of boredom or 'just in case', and left with something I completely did not need! Totally need to unsubscribe to so many mailing lists as well...

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  7. /COUGHCOUGH GIFT THEM TO ME/But I know what you mean. Currently burdened by the 3for2 offers EVERYWHERE and can't help wondering if I really do need all this??? Realistically never going to hit pan on anything at this point, but at the same time, when these sales are flashing in your face, you can't help but switch into "BUT THIS IS NEVER GOING TO HAPPEN AGAIN" or a "IN CASE" mentality.

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  8. These are great tips. I'm not a beauty blogger, but I do read plenty of them, and I'll admit it's easy to get caught up in the excitement. I rarely buy more than must daily products (foundation, powder, mascara, eyebrow pencil, etc.), and then just occasionally treat me myself to something new.Cathttp://oddlylovely.com

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  9. I'm an emotional shopper too, so I feel ya! To keep my spending down, I give myself a budget of what I can spend, that way I never go over board.xxladyporter.blogspot.com

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